Family · Friendship · Life · Motherhood · Parenting

They don’t have to be anything 

It was Monday afternoon and I was happily enjoying a glass of water and secretly watching Daughter play in the yard with three good friends. All of these friends are boys, and I was feeling all smug about how awesome Daughter is, “holding her own” with these boys who play at Minecraft and spies and… Continue reading They don’t have to be anything 

Uncategorized

Robbers of joy

Something great about computerized assessments is that, when you have multiple choice tests, you can know your score rather immediately. When I finished me test on Friday, it’s safe to say I was nervous. The book I had purchased did nothing to prepare me and I had to go with my gut on almost every… Continue reading Robbers of joy

Anxiety · Teacher · Teaching

Testing 

Today I will be taking a computerized test to be given real authority to have a teaching license in my new state. I have opted to take the three sections of the rest all at once so it will be five hours with breaks between. I am terrified.  I’ve been reviewing information and study guides… Continue reading Testing 

Friendship · Life

Breaking up is hard to do

I’m not sure if it has to do with age or parenthood or some other mysterious force in my life, but I’m a lot more content in my beliefs than I ever used to be. I’m comfortable talking about my connection to the Universe and to my God. I can give you my opinions on… Continue reading Breaking up is hard to do

Family · Geeks · Life · Parenting · Uncategorized

A culture of geeks

When I was growing up,  “geek” and “nerd” were insults hurled with four-letter-word status. They were two of the worst things you could be and the stereotypes that came along with those words were none too flattering. They implied thick glasses with tape around the bridge, pocket protectors, bow ties, high waisted pants, the terrible… Continue reading A culture of geeks

Life

Why my stuff isn’t just things 

Friday Daughter and I went out shopping after I picked her up from school. Husband was working late and so we made an evening of it, hitting a bookstore for a while and even having some dinner at a pizzeria before heading home. We knew we would be feeding the beasts a little bit late,… Continue reading Why my stuff isn’t just things 

Family · Life · Motherhood · Parenting

Mother’s Day

 A few friends asked me to write about Mother’s Day for the blog today. I wasn’t going to. In fact, I have another post ready and loaded because I was hesitant to write about this day for a few reasons.  The first and most obvious is that I fear I am losing my mother… Continue reading Mother’s Day

Family · Motherhood

Children’s music

  Daughter is all of eight years old now and is  developing her own musical tastes. Until now things were ruled pretty much by Disney and the few child-specific albums recorded by bands that we could get behind no problem. The whole family has a soft spot for The Barenaked Ladies album “Snacktime,” and The… Continue reading Children’s music

Anxiety · Depression · Family · Life · Unemployment

I’m a quitter

I quit one of my jobs without having another one lined up. I hated the job, I was miserable, and it was making my anxiety and depression extremely difficult to live with, so I quit. Immediately I felt this amazing weight lifted off of my shoulders. I was liberated. I was free! I could breathe… Continue reading I’m a quitter

Life · Weight

My three white dresses

When I was in second grade and I began to prepare for my first Holy Communion, I got to buy a fancy white dress. I remember shopping for it at Sears and feeling like I was buying a wedding gown.  I was asked to try on so many dresses, and I loved every single one.… Continue reading My three white dresses